Noticing Signs of Stress
Take note of these signs that a child may need additional help during the grieving process.
Sometimes, children who are grieving can have especially severe reactions. You’ll naturally want to watch kids closely to get as clear a picture as possible of how they’re doing.
Children may:
- have nightmares or scary thoughts, either in general or about the way the loved one died,
- fixate on the circumstance of the person’s death,
- not want to talk about the death or anything (even happy memories) about the deceased person, and
- experience problems with “hyperarousal,” such as trouble sleeping, poor concentration, excessive irritability, or developing new fears.
Parents know their children and their behavior best. If any of these problems are causing concern, reach out for help right away.
For Providers: Using These Resources
Print and refer to this page as you implement the materials in this initiative.
Watch and Play: Abby's Magical Beasties
Watch this episode and explore ways to extend the learning at home.
Parenting Moment: Describing
The way you talk with children matters! Your words have power.
Parenting Moment: Imitating
Playing is learning! The way you play with children matters… your actions and words have power.
Parenting Moment: Reflecting
The way you talk with children matters… your words have power!
Adult Teamwork in Children's Tough Moments
When it comes to supporting little ones with big feelings, providers and caregivers work better together!
Milestones: Your Six-Year-Old
All children grow and develop at their own pace; use this chart to guide your expectations and observations so you can talk to your child’s pediatrician about questions or concerns.
