Expressing & Handling Emotions
Use these activities to help children express and manage strong feelings.
Here are some ways to help kids express and manage their feelings.
- Talk with kids about clues in their bodies that help tell the difference between comfortable and uncomfortable feelings. For instance, if a child is angry or nervous, they may feel warm; if they feel excited, they may want to jump up and down. Tuning in to their bodies can help kids identify their own feelings.
- Demonstrate how taking slow, deep breaths can help manage overwhelming feelings and help kids calm themselves down a little.
- Read a book together and talk about the characters’ feelings (“Alex is covering his eyes and clinging to his dad. How do you think he feels?” or “It looks like Alex feels afraid. Do you remember feeling afraid of the dark?”) Point out that everyone experiences emotions differently.
- Validate kids’ feelings. Let them know it’s okay to have more than one feeling at the same time, and these feelings may come and go. Brainstorm plans to comfort them when they have difficult feelings, such as carrying comfort objects or keeping a family photo in their pockets.
Using Your Words
A coloring page helping children explore words for big feelings.
For Providers: Using These Resources
Print and refer to this page as you implement the materials in this initiative.
Toddler Tips: Meltdowns
Strategies for during and after a meltdown…and even some ways meltdowns might be avoided.
6 Ways to Practice Nurturing Parenting
Tips from a pediatrician on understanding, empathizing with, encouraging, and positively guiding children.
Milestones: Your Five-Year-Old
All children grow and develop at their own pace; use this chart to guide your expectations and observations so you can talk to your child’s pediatrician about questions or concerns.
Milestones: Your Four-Year-Old
All children grow and develop at their own pace; use this chart to guide your expectations and observations so you can talk to your child’s pediatrician about questions or concerns.
Milestones: Your Six-Year-Old
All children grow and develop at their own pace; use this chart to guide your expectations and observations so you can talk to your child’s pediatrician about questions or concerns.
