Giving Hearts Time to Heal
Remind kids that grieving and healing both take time.
- Together, watch this video and talk about how Elmo and Jesse have lots of big feelings about Uncle Jack’s death. Explain that it will take time for their hearts to heal, and that talking about feelings and sharing happy memories of Uncle Jack help Elmo, Jesse, and their family get through this tough time.
- Together, use construction paper, family photos, and pictures from magazines to make a memory collage. You can write a short dedication to the memory of the person who died. Decorate it with pictures of his or her favorite things, or with things that remind you of special times spent together.
- Display the collage to remind children that the person who died will always be part of their family. You can suggest that children blow a kiss each time they walk past it, or look at it whenever they want, knowing that their loved one is still in their hearts and minds.
Something New
In this story, Elmo’s cousin Jesse helps remind children that big changes can mean new opportunities to learn and grow.
Jesse Expresses Grief Through Play
A video to show how children can express their feelings of grief through play — and how grown-ups can help.
Re-grieving as Seasons Change
A video that shows how grief can come and go throughout life.
Growing as We Grieve
Parents and caregivers, reflect on your own experience of grief and hear what has helped other families cope, thrive, and find joy.
Growing as They Grieve
A special guide for providers supporting children who are grieving.
Supporting Grieving Native American Children and Families
Learn ways to support Native American children and families who are grieving with compassion and cultural humility.
Grieving and Growing: Helping Families Navigate Bereavement Together