A Good Friend to Myself
Self-compassion matters… children should be as kind to themselves as they are to others!
Watch the video with children and talk about how Rosita was a good friend to herself when she was frustrated about making a mistake. When children are in distress and it’s appropriate, spend a quiet moment with them and invite them to pause to show kindness to themselves. They can close their eyes, belly breathe, put their hands on their heart, and repeat phrases such as:
- Everyone feels ____ sometimes.
- Everyone makes mistakes. Mistakes are a part of learning.
- I’m a kid who keeps trying.
- I’ll figure it out.
- I’m a problem solver.
- I’m going to try my best to ____.
- I can be a good friend to myself!
Try this yourself, too!
Mindset Matters
We can all learn and grow in new ways. Rather than believing that we’re born “good” or “bad” at things, we can move toward the idea that all learning and growing requires practice and effort, and we can always look at things with fresh perspectives.
This kind of mindset is key to mental health because it helps us stay optimistic and confident as we face changes and challenges—and feel less frustrated, more resilient, and more ready to handle problems.
Safe & Together
When families have to leave home in order to stay safe, it helps to remember that home is where the love is.
Bubble Time
A quiet activity such as blowing bubbles can help both children and adults breathe deeply, slow down… and calm down.
Crayon Power
Coloring together can soothe both children and grown-ups.
See You Later Alligator
A special, loving good-bye routine can make separations easier.
Friendship Bracelets
When it’s hard to be apart from those we love, the littlest things can become big reminders that someone loves us and is thinking of us.
Cloud Watching
Spending time outside can feel like a “reset” on the day.
Pillow Hugs
Hugging a pillow covered with an item of a loved one’s clothing can help comfort children when they’re missing them.
