
Cultivating Confidence
Confidence is that sense of self-assurance we get from appreciating our own abilities or qualities, and from mastering new skills.
Confidence is that sense of self-assurance we get from appreciating our own abilities or qualities, and from mastering new skills. When children feel confident, they’re more able to remain optimistic in the face of adversity. There are simple ways grown-ups can help build little ones’ confidence.
Watch this short video, noting the four strategies highlighted:
- Acknowledge – help children feel seen and heard when we talk about feelings with them
- Introduce – change children’s perspective by introducing the concept of yet
- Remind – concrete examples give children “proof” that they can accomplish new things
- Compliment – offer compliments that encourage a growth mindset
After watching, you might take a look at a few resources, like Elmo Doesn’t Give Up, and Super Teeth Chart to help put these strategies into practice.

Cookie Monster’s Beach Day
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Parenting Moment: Describing
The way you talk with children matters! Your words have power.

Parenting Moment: Imitating
Playing is learning! The way you play with children matters… your actions and words have power.

Parenting Moment: Reflecting
The way you talk with children matters… your words have power!

Parenting Moment: Enjoying!
Showing you enjoy your time together with your child builds your special bond. And when you’re being positive, your little one is more likely to do the same.

For Providers: Using These Resources
Print and refer to this page as you implement the materials in this initiative.

The Power of Following Children’s Lead
Joining children in their play offers so many opportunities to encourage, communicate, bond, spark and share joy, teach, show warmth and kindness, and help them thrive.