Overcoming Mistakes
Ways to make kids' mistakes less upsetting.
Children may be excited to try many new things, but they can feel disappointed when situations don’t go their way. As kids learn how to control their emotions, making mistakes will be less upsetting.
If you notice kids struggling with mistakes, here are some ways to respond:
- Assure them that mistakes are part of learning, and that everyone makes mistakes—even you!
- Remind kids that the way to get better at something is to practice doing it. Talk about other things they’ve gotten good at because they practiced.
- Give kids a superhero name and let them know they have the power to figure things out. When they get upset about a mistake, say, “This sounds like a job for [child’s superhero name]!”
- When you confront your own mistakes, try to manage your emotions. Let kids hear you say aloud as you solve a problem, “First I’ll do this, then I’ll do…”
Safe & Together
When families have to leave home in order to stay safe, it helps to remember that home is where the love is.
Bubble Time
A quiet activity such as blowing bubbles can help both children and adults breathe deeply, slow down… and calm down.
Crayon Power
Coloring together can soothe both children and grown-ups.
See You Later Alligator
A special, loving good-bye routine can make separations easier.
Friendship Bracelets
When it’s hard to be apart from those we love, the littlest things can become big reminders that someone loves us and is thinking of us.
Cloud Watching
Spending time outside can feel like a “reset” on the day.
Pillow Hugs
Hugging a pillow covered with an item of a loved one’s clothing can help comfort children when they’re missing them.
